…On our woodstove a few weeks ago, it smelled so good.
As I’ve been thinking about the holiday season, I thought I’d share something that’s been on my mind, and perhaps you’ve been feeling something similar too. I know kids love opening presents (and who doesn’t enjoy receiving a gift), but I believe that what kids really want from the adults in their lives, is for us to be present with them. For us to set aside the phones and screens, work and distractions, and simply slow down and give them our full attention. Children grow so fast and our time with them is so precious. I feel like it’s a good time of year to be reminded of that, don’t you? I’m holding that in my heart right now, and not just savoring our time with the kids in our lives, but with all those we hold dear.
Wishing you all things merry and cozy my friends!
I always loved the idea of “making merry” because it’s so tied to connection to those we love. You can (and should!) make yourself merry, of course, but merry-making is almost always a community act, infused with the ideas of generosity of spirit, laughter, warmth, and the magic of connection. And especially lighting the glow of joy in a child’s eyes, just by taking the time to really look and be with them.
I appreciate the reminder in your words. And am a little jealous of how your house must have smelled! Such senses-full merry making!
You are so right.They need to feel seen by your eyes.Merry Christmas